![]() Maybe if myself and a partner needed to spice up our sex lives.’ Mark: ‘I feel it’s something that i would be more inclined to do if suggested. Tom: ‘I don’t think my partner would ever suggest it so it would only happen if I asked.’ Rheese: ‘Talked about it with my girlfriend, I think I would be more comfortable having it done after a few drinks.’ I’d feel completely comfortable suggesting when I felt like it.’ Henry: ‘My sexual partners are really open people like myself so things have always gotten a little weirder than just “butt stuff”. I think communication is key on this matter.’ ‘I think most women would run a mile if you turned round early on and said “jam a thumb up my ass will you love?”. ![]() James: ‘Knowing what your partner wants is very important… I would not say it’s a first time kind of thing to ask someone either unless you chatted about it beforehand. Do you feel it’s something you’re more inclined to ask for or is it something you’d wait for your sexual partner to request? Henry: ‘Yes, definitely! Experimented a bit but not too much.’ 3. James: ‘I wouldn’t say it’s a fantasy as it’s something I have already experienced. Tom: ‘I have definitely fantasised about it, everyone’s a little bit curious!’ Mark: ‘Not really… I’ve seen it in porn and carried on masturbating. Have you ever fantasised about ‘butt stuff’ (having it touched, pleasured etc)? Head on over to Men’s Health for more from the backdoor.‘Jam a thumb up my ass, will you love?’ (Picture: Ella Byworth for .uk) 2. There was one interviewee however who seemed to possibly teeter on the experimental side with another male as he ambiguously described one of his pegging partners as “non-binary.” There is definitely something peculiar about that admission – butt, I just can’t put my finger on it. Their self-awareness is refreshing and to be commended, especially as it can bring more solidarity between different types of people while also destigmatizing sexuality in general.Īll six men featured in the article claim to be straight and I believe them. They proudly admit they love being anally stimulated – just not by another man, and that’s fine. I commend these guys for keeping it real and being honest about the pleasures they enjoy. If you like pleasure, you’ll like pegging. He explains, “… people need to be okay with ignoring gender-based ideas of what ‘right’ sex is. It helps him to find a commonality between gender and various sexualities. On the physical level, he claims his orgasms are experienced throughout his entire body when he climaxes while penetrated with a dildo or strap-on worn by his female partner, and he admits this brings him to a better understanding of his gay male friends’ sexuality. Then there is “John,” 35 years old with very progressive ideas about getting pegged. This dynamic is far less explored by heterosexual couples. But he also reveals that equally stimulating are the aspects of role reversals and power play in which the male becomes a submissive presence to his female partner. He professes a love for it as it provides the unique sensation of pressure massaging the prostate and amazing orgasm. Take for example “Phillip” aged 29 who has been pegged at least 30 times by three different women with a dildo. The men interviewed by Men’s Health are candid and wonderfully expressive in sharing the reasons why they love it, and surprisingly in some instances, it transcends beyond a mere sexual experience to something far more cerebral. Now I know what you’re thinking –that these guys might not be totally straight and that perhaps finger play is a gateway to gay, but as it turns out there are many straight men who enjoy being anally stimulated by their female partners during sex. For some straight men, it’s all about the pleasure principle. However, there are exceptions, as I discovered this week when six brave heterosexual (ish) guys shared with the popular straight “dude” magazine, Men’s Health, their unadulterated and somewhat insatiable desire to be anally penetrated by their girlfriend’s finger(s) or other objects during sex. It is called “getting pegged,” and in consideration of the implications of sexuality that might be associated with it, it’s understandable that straight men who enjoy it would be reluctant to admit it openly. According to Men’s Health, the act itself, now with straight men as the willing recipients, has been rebranded with a new name.
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